Just a Quick Thank You

I am truly lucky to have so many people looking out for me. I know many of you are interested in what’s going on with my Dad, the Orange Hat, so here’s a quickie.

He’s been on a rollercoaster of good and bad. There have been several serious problems that the Dr. has been treating including his kidneys, blood pressure and liver. Unfortunately, the problems are going to take him from us soon. He’ll be coming home under Hospice care on Friday. The good news is that he’s been very clear of mind when he’s awake so we’ve gotten to spend some good time together (although he sleeps most of the time).

My mother, the Hatarina, is doing well. The loneliness will come but hopefully her neighbors and friends will fill her days. I’ve been holding it together but I know that will not last too much longer. I’m very tired. But, as I say, this is all part of life and I will remember the good times. If it doesn’t hurt some, then it really didn’t mean anything.

Thank you all for your thoughts and wishes and I promise to be reading you a Von’s East grocery receipt soon.

26 Comments

  1. We’re holding you and your family in our hearts. Know that we are all thinking of you.

  2. Make sure you post a favorite picture of you guys together for us.

  3. I’m so sorry. Glad you can spend this time with him. You’ll be in my thoughts.

  4. Dear Big Fatty, this is going to be the hardest thing you’ve ever done. It’s also going to be the most wonderful gift you could ever give your Dad. Here comes a hug, love Phil

  5. Our thoughts are with you. It’s so hard losing a loved one. He will be missed.

  6. Thinking of you at this time. Just as you have been there for us we are here for you even if not in person.

  7. You and your family are in our thoughts. I’m very sorry to hear this news. We love you very much.

    Hauntcub/Hauntdaddy

  8. I’m glad you are able to spend time with him and that he is clear minded to make that time even better.

  9. My heart is breaking for you. I’m thinking of you and you’re family. You’re such a strong person! Love you Big Fatty!

  10. Take care Big Fatty. Sending love and best wishes to you and your family during this difficult time.

  11. Sending happy thoughts and hugs your way. If there’s anything I can help with, just shout. I’ll do what I can. Loooove you figs

  12. I can’t imagine how hard this is. I’m thinking of you and the Hats. Love you!

  13. We love you and will support you however we can! -T,T&R

  14. Sending you and your family comforting thoughts. Hugs. Love you!

  15. Thinking of you and your family. If you need anything, please reach out.

  16. All my best to you and your family. You are in my thoughts.

  17. Both Paul and I are sending love and light to all of the Fatty clan in this time of transition.

  18. I am thinking and praying for you and your family during this time. Love you Big Fatty. Hugs.

  19. Hugs & love toot-toot. Give the hats an extra squish from the bacon family.

    Love you fart!

  20. sending out big hugs and love to you, BF and your family…

  21. I’ve spent a lot of time around folks in the final stages of their lives. You are giving your dad and family the best gift you can give them–your time, love, and presence. You are doing the work that you are meant to do right now, as hard as it is at times. I’m holding you all in love and prayers.

  22. You and your family are in my thoughts. I’m so thankful the family has been there in this terrible time. Many hugs to you and yours.

  23. Hey been thinking about you I know what you going through did same for my father I’m here if you need anything

  24. Dear Big Fatty,

    Sending you hugs ! Try to rest when you can. It is very difficult, Hospice is wonderful. They carried our family through my Dad’s final weeks and after were there for mom, family.

    Take care , Francie

  25. We love you dear

  26. Big Fatty,

    My heart aches for you. I hope you are surrounded by love during this difficult time. Cherish the moment you have. Let us know if we can do anything to support your family.

    Joe.